When it comes to this whole dynamic of relationships and break ups, you need to have some self respect if you expect to reconcile the broken relationship with your ex lover. If your lover dumped you, and you don’t feel you deserved it, then don’t waste your time crying about the whole situation because it shows that you are weak. He or she obviously does not appreciate you for the special individual you are. Don’t even try to figure out how to get your ex back. If you have done no wrong in the relationship you were in, then if it’s meant to be, he or she will realize it and come back to you without you doing anything. Any actions on your part can cause you to appear desperate with low self esteem. So, if you were dumped for no reason, hold your head up high, and try not to worry about it.